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Saturday, March 23, 2019

3 Reasons Why You Should Keep Dating

In the first episode of Sex and the City, Carrie says they're dating in "the age of un-innocence". I'd rather be there than in the age of "send nudes" and 2am "U up" texts. 

Dating isn't hard. Thanks Tinder. *swipes left from my couch*

Finding someone who you would like to continue to date, is hard.  Like, I think I need a stiff cocktail hard. Add the difficulty of meeting people in NYC to the mix and that's the sour cherry on top. How many Bumble, Tinder, Match, POF, The League, Hinge, etc matches have you racked up and have any of them actually evolved into something that is not platonic that you are genuinely interested in? 

If the answer is more than you want to admit and no, I'm here to tell you it's completely ok. Don't be discouraged. I've been there and most of my friends have too. 

Here are 3 reason why you should keep dating:

Dating different types of people will help you learn what you are looking for in a partner
If you happen to notice you consistently vibe well with European men who are well traveled and worldly (if you know me you know I am talking about myself) or guys/girls/cis etc... who are all about the gym and being active - take note of that! Especially if it brings out the best in you.

You can figure out what you DON'T want in a partner
Yeah, think of those bad dates. Those get me tf out of here, what is life, pls help, bad dates. Pay attention to what is not working for you about that person and make a mental note. Are they arrogant? Boring? Close-minded? thank u, next.

Eventually you'll find someone you want to learn more about
If you are being open and fair, then you will find a person who is worth getting to know and maybe progress to something more than just casual dating. 

They may just be #bae in no time. 



  1. I have a lot of friends who are looking for a partner, and these are great tips I should share with them.


    1. Thanks Mai!

      always helps to hear new perspectives.

  2. I will share with my single friends! This post is so true!

    Happy Monday, babe!
    xoxo, Vanessa

  3. Such a fun read! Thanks for sharing dear!

    Jessica |


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